I’ve been getting several emails from guys (and some women) explaining that they’re using “my” free techniques, but their woman is still not able to have an orgasm. What’s up with that?
First of all, all the techniques I give away for free are what everyone else is charging for. Second, I didn’t invent the techniques. They are an accumulation of knowledge, research and experience (my own and others). Third, I take responsibility for my claims. If someone tells me that they tried my technique, but it didn’t work, I feel absolutely gutted and I want to do everything I can to help the person make it work for them.
Here are the reasons why my free female orgasm techniques may not be working properly and the solutions:
Weak orgasm muscles

The woman’s orgasm muscles (pubococcygeal muscles) are weak. Women tend not to masturbate as much as men and so there orgasm muscles aren’t as strong. The orgasm muscles run from the pubic bone to the coccyx (tailbone) and involuntarily contract during orgasm. What’s the solution to weak orgasm muscles? Strengthen them with Kegel exercises. The next time she pees, tell her to stop the flow. She just contracted her orgasm muscles. Now tell her to contract her orgasm muscles 10 minutes a day. Tell her to do holds of 1 second each and holds of 1 minute each. It should take about 2 weeks for her to strengthen her orgasm muscles. She can do them any where at any time and no one will know. Strong orgasm muscles not only enable strong orgasms, they also enable female ejaculation.
Muscular tension

Absence of fear and anxiety is absolutely essential for the female orgasm. So if a woman’s stressed out, it can be very hard for her to orgasm. You can eliminate her stress with massage. Tell her to have a shower or bath to loosen her muscles up. Then massage out all the lumps in her back and neck for 30 minutes. After several sessions, her body will learn to automatically relax everytime you touch her so long massage sessions will no longer be neccesary. Also watch this video on how to massage her (especially for squirting G spot orgasms):
http://www.slutload.com/watch/QkonYgxDTde/Pro-pussy-Player-leads-you-to-explore-Gspot.html
Also, for squirting G spot orgasms, give her at least 3 C spot (clitoral) orgasms first because this allows the G spot to fill with female ejaculate and become fully aroused.
Not aroused enough

The guy just jumps into the technique without first arousing her enough. Use massage and the 4 sex personalities to remedy this. Also use plenty of lubricant such as Enlast because it makes the vagina much more sensitive and accelerates arousal.
Negative attitudes towards sex

The woman may have negative attitudes towards sex because of a sexually conservative upbringing, sexual abuse or a sexually-embarrassing incident in her past. Eliminate these negative attitudes with EFT (emotional freedom techniques). Watch this video for details:
Lack of trust

The woman doesn’t really trust the guy. She thinks that he will cheat on her or leave her. This causes stress which inhibits her orgasm. The solution is to always keep your promises and commitments, no matter how trivial. If you want her to trust you, be trustworthy.
Lack of respect

The woman doesn’t respect the guy. She doesn’t take him seriously. She’s only in a relationship or sleeping with the guy to “prove” to herself and the world that she isn’t a loser. The guy is just a place-holder that she uses for validation. The guy is always seeking her approval and apologising to her like the dentist in The Hangover. She may even be abusive and cheat on him. The solution? Walk away. Once a woman loses respect for a guy, she can’t get aroused to orgasmic levels by him and it’s almost impossible for her to get it back. The guy needs to walk away and develop his leadership skills, in particular, not taking shit from any one and punishing all bad behaviour. He must learn to command respect. This doesn’t mean dominating people. This means not allowing other people to dominate you (especially her).
Anorgasmic drugs

Anti-depressants and alcohol inhibit orgasm. If she takes these things in excess, she won’t be able to cum. The solution is to stop taking them and to solve her emotional issues with EFT, exercise and nutrition.
Damaged Goods

The guy should also avoid “damaged goods”. These are those hot women who are fucking nut cases and stress you out once you get to know them. Have high standards and don’t fall into the “halo effect”. This is when a beautiful woman is perceived to be more kind, trustworthy, honest, intelligent and emotionally mature just because she’s beautiful. This is a real psychological phenomenon and most guys are vulnerable to it. “Damaged goods” are extremely hard to make orgasm, but if you must have her, do EFT with her. I know the “damaged goods” reason can easily be used to blame the woman. However, be persistent, but be prepared to acknowledge that you can’t help her and cut your losses. There’s nothing wrong with being wrong, just don’t stay wrong.
Lack of emotional connection

A lot of women need an emotional connection with the guy to have an orgasm with him. However, if you have commitment issues, the “emotional connection factor” can be negated by completely arousing her with the 4 sex personalities (this is particularly important for 1 night stands, flings and fuck buddy relationships). However, be ethical and don’t lead a woman on, play with her emotions or lie to her.
Low Self-Esteem

Deep down, the woman has low self-esteem and doesn’t truly believe that she deserves pleasurable experiences like orgasms. Do EFT to remedy this. Also tell her to raise her T bars to the top in her handwriting to raise her self esteem.
The 4 sex personalities




The guy isn’t turning her on with the 4 sex personalities:
- The Sexual Beast
- The Passionate Lover
- The Tantric Master
- The Shape Shifter
Read this post for more details: http://1stop4femaleorgasms.com/blog/133/the-4-sex-personalities/
When you’ve taken all these corrective measures and proven all my free female orgasm techniques to yourself, instantly download SEX IQ for advanced female orgasms (female sexual fantasy and voice only orgasms).