The Human Mating Dance
Women come pre-wired with a mating dance in their subconscious brains. They don’t know what it is consciously and neither do most guys. If a guy touches a woman in the right sequence, she will more likely than not become sexually aroused and her wet pussy will crave his cock.
There’s a mating sequence in a certain species of fish (I can’t remember the name). If the male gets the sequence right, the female will mate with him. She will tolerate some mistakes. However, the more attractive she is, the less mistakes she will tolerate. Sound familiar?
So, what’s the right sequence for humans? Here it is:
Eye Contact
Look her right in the eyes and don’t break eye contact until she does. But, make sure you break it as well, otherwise it comes across as creepy. This is the paradoxically the most important step and the least important step. Her mating sequence can’t be initiated unless you do it, but it won’t get her pussy wet. The physical act of eye contact is quite simple and easy. The psychological act of looking into a woman’s eye you’re really attracted can be extremely difficult. Be a man and do it. Direct eye contact is the No1 indicator of confidence to a woman.
But, DON’T turn your body towards her until she turns her body towards you because it subconsciously turns of most women. Only turn your head towards her.
Voice
You have to talk to her! Don’t try to be sophisticated or unique. Just say, “hi” with a light smile. Develop a loud, resonating, clear, slowish voice.
- Make your consonants crisp and drag your vowels out because this will give your voice a hypnotic quality.
- Hum a lot to develop resonance.
- For a loud voice, consciously project your voice through a woman’s body (especially her breasts), keep your body and face relaxed by breathing deep and slow with your belly, and keep your shoulders low and loose.
- Communicate fun (yet stable) energy with your voice (think of fun energy in your mind and it will come out in your voice) because this “fun frame” will create a “halo effect”. Everything you do will be perceived as fun, and any mistakes you make will be overlooked or disregarded. Alternatively, if you communicate “non-fun” energy with your voice, you will create a “negative halo effect”. No matter what you say and do will be perceived negatively or simply disregarded, even if it’s “text-book” perfect.
- A strong voice is the No2 predictor of confidence to a woman.
Arms
Always shake her hand because this creates the “kino frame”: it is natural for you and her to touch one another. But, remember your “fun frame”? Use your hands to create the “fun kino frame”. Give her a fun handshake like the rock or a high five, or even better, have a thumb war because this prolongs the touching. As you’re having a thumb war, place your other hand on the inside of her elbow and tell her to do the same to you because the touching of elbows is the next step in the human mating dance. Then, win the thumb war. Do a victory dance and congratulate her for doing her best by placing your hand on her shoulder. You can also reinforce the fun kino frame by saying, “Why are the women here so fun and friendly, but just a bit naughty?” She should laugh, and by doing so, her subconscious will start to make her body behave in a fun, touchy-feely, sexual way because this line creates a “sexual frame”: It is OK to be sexual. It’s important that you set a sexual frame immediately or else a woman’s subconscious will find it very difficult to sleep with you later on.
Cheeks
When she’s talking, turn your ear to her mouth and lean in. When you talk, turn your mouth to her ear. Eventually you’ll be talking to cheek to cheek.
Hips
When you’re talking cheek to cheek, place an arm around her and put a hand on her hips and pull her closer, so you “hear her more clearly”. She’ll usually respond by putting her hand on your shoulder or chest. I seriously recommend going to a gym and working out your pecs so she has something firm to place her hands on.
Kiss
Take her left hand and ask why there isn’t a ring on her finger. She’ll say, “I don’t know, blah, blah, blah.” You say with a playful voice and a light smile, “Is it because you’re crazy?” She’ll laugh or playfully hit you because you’ve already set a fun kino frame. Then say, “I know why. It’s because you’re a bad kisser.” She’ll protest that she’s a good kisser. You say, “OK, prove it.”
Then start “triangulating”. Look at her left eye for 1 second, then her right eye for 1 second, then her lips for 1 second. Keep triangulating until she does it back or her lower lip gets slightly bigger or her mouth opens slightly (this mimics an aroused pussy). Her pupils will also dilate when she’s attracted to you. Looking at a woman’s lips makes her sexually aroused.
Then, lean forward, tilt your head, close your eyes and lightly suck her lower lip for a fraction of a second. Don’t use any saliva! Slowly pull back. She will re-initiate the kissing.Then, place one hand on the back of her neck and start massaging it. Smell her hair and lightly pull it. Kiss her neck.
Practise sucking the back of your hand with no saliva to get the technique right.
Chest
As you’re kissing, press your chest into hers. Put your hands on her hips. She will put her arms around your shoulders.
Buttocks
Brush your hands over her butt and thighs. Take her by the hand and lead her to bed.
Pussy
With your pants still on, grind your groin into hers. When she grinds back, massage her clitoris through her clothes. Then take of her panties and do fingering techniques for 15 minutes (A, C and G spot stimulation).
Sex
Don’t put your cock in her pussy until she has reached “plateau” (her inner lips are extremely wet and darker in colour). This is usually the case when you can put 2 or 3 fingers in her pussy with ease. Use grapeseed oil as a lubricant to accelerate this.
Use plenty of teasing, especially with “kunbaya”: You rub the head of your erect penis into her clitoris and around her vaginal opening for 15 minutes.
Grind your pubic bone into her C spot (clitoris) and the base of your penis into her G spot. Aim to maintain continuous contact on these 2 spots.
Orgasm
As she approaches orgasm she:
- has short, rapid breathes
- tenses up and begins to squirm
- thrusts her hips into your to match your thrusting
- puts her hands on your body and pulls you in deeper
When she orgasms, her anus involuntarily contracts.
Next time you have an orgasm, put your fingers and your anus and feel the contractions. Those will be the same contraction when she orgasms. If she claims to be cumming, put your finger on her anus or perineum, if you can’t feel any contractions, she’s faking it! Watch the video in this blog post too see anal contractions.
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