Check out this awsome video by Dan Rose (author of The Sex God Method) about how to last 60-90 minutes in bed:
Do you know what the biggest problem most men have in bed is? They cum too fast!
If you have this problem or if you just want to improve your game and last longer, here’s the solution:
Don’t try to distract yourself
Don’t count sheep or think about baseball because it doesn’t work. You’ll cum too soon any way and you’ll feel embarrassed & disappointed and she’ll feel frustrated.
The Root Cause
The root cause of premature ejaculation (cumming too fast) is psychological and/or physical tension.
Tension in your core muscles and buttocks triggers the ejaculation reflex.
Shallow, fast breaths trigger the ejaculation reflex
The Solution
Take deep, slow breaths. When you inhale, expand your belly (not your chest). When you exhale, contract your belly.
Relax yourself BEFORE sex and then continue your relaxation during sex. Get her to give you a blowjob during foreplay because this will relax you.
Have non-thrusting intercourse. Stay still and get her to do the work.
Super Testosterone
Another important thing about being in a woman for 60-90 minutes is that the vagina has magical bio-electrical qualities. It converts testosterone in your blood to di-hydro testosterone, which is “super” testosterone.
Super testosterone makes you:
Harder, hornier and a dominant leader.
Super confident, stronger and more energetic.
If you work your muscles and penis out, super testosterone makes them bigger in weeks.
It increases your sex drive, sperm count, fertility and the size and power of your ejaculate.
Super testosterone makes you super sexy and desirable to women.
The Sex God Method
Want to find out more about Dan Rose and The Sex God Method? Then watch Dan’s free video where he explains why 94.7% of men suck in bed (his words, not mine).
The evolutionary function of the female orgasm is simple: collect the best possible sperm (genes) from men. Check out this shocking video about human sperm competiton:
According to Dr Robin Baker PhD and Dr Mark Bellis PhD, 1% of your sperm are fertile and the rest are suicide bombers that are designed to kill the sperm of other men.
99% Of Your Sperm Are Suicide Bombers Because Women Instigate Sperm Wars
Women Orgasm With Their Lovers But Not Their Husbands
According to Dr Baker and Dr Bellis, women are more likely to orgasm with their lover during or after sexual intercourse.
A woman’s orgasm retains 50-90% of sperm and the rest flow back out, whereas no orgasm retains 0-50%.
When a woman is being faithful she helps her partner to place a large sperm army inside of her 55% of the time. When she is cheating she only helps him 40% of the time, but helps her lover 70% of the time.
Also, women are more likely to be kinky with their lovers, engaging in sex in public places and anal sex.
Women Have Orgasms With Their Lovers To Retain Their Sperm
Women Help Their Lover’s Sperm Much More Than Their Husband’s
And the cherry on top: 45-55% of MARRIED women fuck men who are NOT their husbands. What is the percentage of cheating women who are NOT married?
15% Non-Paternity Rate Worldwide!
According to Dr Baker, worldwide, blood studies have found that around 10% of children have a biological father different from the man their mother has told them is their father.
Child support agencies have also found a non-paternity rate of around 15% worldwide.
A study in Southern England found a non-paternity rate of 20%. These figures are for children actually born.
The numbers are higher for children conceived because some women have abortions to avoid detection of their infidelity.
The numbers for infidelity are even higher because sex doesn’t always result in conception. One study was as high as 70%.
15% Non-Paternity Rate Worldwide!
A – 10% non-paternity (blood studies)
B – 15% non-paternity (child support agencies)
C – 20% non-paternity (southern England)
D – 70% infidelity
A Men’s Health Magazine survey found:
94.7% of men DON”T satisfy women in bed ie only 5.3% of men are good in bed.
91.7% of women have faked orgasms.
74.6% of women cheated because they weren’t sexually satisfied.
In this female orgasm video, Jason Julius explains “The Running Man”. This is a technique that causes squirting G spot orgasms.
Make sure she is extremely wet first! Her G spot feels kind of like the roof of your mouth.
Make a woman squirt and she will become deeply emotionally and sexually connected to you. She will always want to have sex with you and do you favours. She will think that the sun shines out of your arse.
If you don’t make a woman squirt or give her G spot orgasms, you risk her being constantly bitchy and agitated, withholding sex and eventually cheating on you. You have been warned.
So watch Jason’s video, do the technique tonight and then instantly download SEX IQ for advanced female orgasms.
Check out this female orgasm video by my friend Jason Julius:
Here’s a summary of the video:
Sexual Deprivation
Women are sexually deprived.
Women love sex as much as men, but 30% have never had an orgasm.
70% of women don’t have orgasms during sex.
Most women are sexually deprived because most men don’t know how to make them cum hard.
Confidence
Giving a woman mind-blowing orgasms gives you unstoppable confidence in life.
Your sexual confidence is key to the female orgasm.
Women love sex, but they don’t want to be perceived as sluts.
It’s easier to give a confident woman whole-body squirting orgasms (but only if you’re confident as well).
The main barrier to super female orgasms is a woman’s mind (negative self-talk and self-limiting beliefs).
All healthy women are physically capable of super orgasms.
Respect
You must command respect to make a woman cum hard.
Leadership
A woman wants to give herself to her man and let her mind and body go, but she can only do this if she respects him and he leads her.
Trust
She must also trust you.
Clitoral-dependency?
The clitoral orgasm is the most common female orgasm and is usually achieved when a woman masturbates. Most women become clitorally-dependent and “have to be” stimulated with her hand or her partners during sex to achieve orgasm (but this blog shows you how to give any woman vaginal orgasms with your penis).
Do you want more videos from Jason? Then click on the girl’s ass.
Here’s another female orgasm and female sexuality video by David Shade: Lie No7, “Women Have All The Power”
If you could get laid in 5 minutes, how powerful would you feel? Extremely powerful, right?
Every hot women can do this, and most other women can as well, but do they feel powerful because of this? No.
Women can get sex whenever they want, but they don’t. Why not?
What Women Really Want
Because they don’t want sex. They want to be fulfilled. What’s one of the best and “easiest” ways to fulfill a woman? With mutiple-vaginal-orgasmic sex.
The Science
The science of this claim is simple: multiple vaginal orgasms release a hormone called oxytocin. Oxytocin causes love, obsession, fetishes, sexual reprogramming, sexual addiction and fulfillment. What’s more, a woman doesn’t become desensitised to oxytocin like other hormones. Instead, she becomes hypersensitised to it. This means that the more vaginal orgasms you give her, the more sexually and emotionally addicted to you she will become. She will perceive this as “fulfillment”.
Is The Power In Your Hands?
It literally is, particular in your middle finger. Watch this A spot female orgasm video for the proof:
Then, just do it. Train your woman to have multiple vaginal orgasms and then stand back and see how fulfilled she becomes. She will always want sex. She will want to do you favours and she will stop nagging you. In fact, the only thing she will nag you about is that you’re not giving her enough sex.
The 4 Sex Personalities
To make the A spot orgasm (a physical technique) work efficiently, combine it with the 4 sex personalities (psychological techniques). Read this post for details:
Here’s another awesome David Shade video on female sexuality and the female orgasm: “Lie No6: Size Matters”
The Reality
Vaginal orgasms are not determined by the size of your penis. You can give women vaginal orgasms (A & G spots) with your middle finger.
These 2 techniques prove it:
A spot vaginal orgasm
G spot vaginal orgasm
What Women Actually Want
vaginal orgasms
romance
foreplay
experimentation
The reason women want foreplay is because they have only experienced clitoral orgasms and this usually happens during foreplay. They don’t really want foreplay per se, they want orgasms! It’s just that most guys don’t have the knowledge and beliefs to give them vaginal orgasms during intercourse, so women and AFC sex educators emphasise foreplay.
In fact, you can give a woman an orgasm without touching her. All you use is the sexual hypnosis in SEX IQ.
Size Matters To Me
Even though I don’t need a big cock to make women cum hard, I still want one. That’s why I did penis enlargement exercises to increase my length by 2 inches. However, since the techniques were done with only my hands, it took many months to see results and it was difficult to scientifically apply the principle of “progressive overload”. And, the gains were inconsistent. I could have a small growth spurt and then nothing happened for months.
The AndroPenis
So, at the beginning of last year (January 2009) I bought an AndroPenis penis extender. At first, I found it difficult to use and the pain from the 9 hour workouts made me not want to wear it for months.
The manufacturer recommends to wear the AndroPenis for 9 hours a day for a year and you’ll increase your penis by 1.6 inches. Fuck that! I want results in weeks.
Eureka!
However, a month ago (December 2009), I had a “eureka!” moment. I hypothesised that if I applied certain principles from weight lifting and kickboxing, I could increase my penis by a further 1 inch in 2 months with my AndroPenis.
I’ve just completed my first month and I’m right on schedule: 0.5 inches in 1 month! My cock looks like it should be in porn. And there was no pain and gruelling 9 hour workout.And, you don’t have to buy penis enlargement pills or other expensive supplements.
All you need is the AndroPenis and my super secret penis enlargement technique.
One more month and I’ll fully prove my technique works.
Do You Want To Be Average?
“Average” penises are 5-6 inches long. “Large” penises are 7-8 inches long and women are so visually aroused by them that they get horny immediately. What’s more, a large penis (there are other things as well) makes youfeel confident and powerful and that’s what really makes women desire you. And you won’t feel self-conscious and inadequate at the urinal or in the locker room. Instead, you’ll feel proud and mighty.
If it’s possible to increase your penis by 1 inch in 2 months, is it possible to increase it by 2 inches in 4 months? What about 3 inches in 6 months?
The Catch
There’s a catch. To increase your penis by 1 inch in 2 months, you’ll have to buy an AndroPenis. If you buy an AndroPenis through my affiliate link, just email me your transaction details and then I’ll email you the technique. Then you’ll add 1 inch to your penis in 2 months.
I’m so confident and excited about my new penis enlargement technique that I’m going to apply for a patent and sell licences to penis extender firms worldwide.
So, click the image and get your AndroPenis to get a large penis, feel confident and powerful and have women desire and respect you. As Tom Cruise says in Magnolia, “Respect the cock!”
Here’s yet another David Shade video on female sexuality and the female orgasm.
The Lie
“Experience” means “good in bed”.
The Truth
Women divorce “experienced” men all the time. These “experienced” men have had sex many times and perhaps with many women, yet they are bad in bed.
What does it take to be a masterful lover? It’s definitely not experience. When you have the right knowledge and beliefs, then you can become a masterful lover.
David Shade also interviews a couple in the video above. When they met, the woman was sexually experienced and the man was a virgin, yet he gave her her first vaginal orgasm and he became the best lover she’s ever had. Here’s how he did it:
A Recent Success Story
Does it take years to become a masterful lover? No. You can become one in days and weeks, perhaps even hours. Check out this success story I received on 1 January 2010:
“Ok here’s the thing I’m a 26 year old man who until a year ago was still a virgin ( yeah I know you can stop laughing now). Well the thing is, before I had sex I did a lot of research and got all these books on how to give women pleasure. So after reading all this info I decided to try it and the end result was that I had given my girlfriend of that time the greatest sex she’s ever had to the point that she actually referred to me as her sex god. I made her in to a multi orgasmic woman she was having so many orgasms that she was the one laying in the bed all exhausted and tired. It was great seeing her going crazy gasping for air as I gave her orgasm after orgasm and especially when I made her squirt. She was addicted to that.” Jon L.
Virgin to sex god. How’s that for success?
If you also want the knowledge and beliefs to make women sexually-addicted to you, then instantly download SEX IQ.
Check out this new David Shade video on the female orgasm and female sexuality:
The Lie
Women don’t want to be sexually dominated.
The Truth
Most women are sexually submissive. They need you to make sweet tender love to them AND they need you to sexually domainate them.
Dichotomies
Women live a life ofdichotomies.
During the day they are proper and innocent. At night, in the privacy of their homes and relationships they want to be sexually ruthless.
During the day, they want to be in control of their destinies. At night, they want their man to be in control.
Outside the bedroom, they don’t like being told what to do, but in the bedroom, this is what they crave.
Be Her Sexual Leader
Most men are not dominant in the bedroom because they think it’s disrespectful. This is a huge mistake because women want you to lead them in the bedroom. A guy can be dominant leader in multiple areas of his life and create initial attraction in women, but if he’s not a dominant leader in the bedroom, he will be exiled to the friendzone.
Even hot women prefer a dominant man over a handsome one. Hot women are attracted to men who are “sexual threats” because their sexual dominance gives them multiple orgasms and this makes them sexually addicted.
Going to school, getting good grades, getting into a good college and getting a good job doesn’t make women wet and sexually addicted to you. Sexual leadership does, so be her sexual leader! Do this and women will do anything for you.
Scientific literature reports that only 30% of women have orgasms during sex. The other 70% believe that they’re not one of the lucky ones. Some sexolgists claim that these women have an anatomical deficiency. This is absolute bull shit.
The Truth
All women can have vaginal orgasms. But, very few men know how to give them because no one ever taught them. These lies were created by insecure men who projected their sexual incompetence onto women.
Watch this awesome video by David Shade about the first lie about sex: “Women don’t want sex”. He also interviews 2 women.
Variations
This lie has other variations:
Women don’t enjoy sex.
Women have no sex drive.
Women only trade sex to get a guy.
Women only trade sex to get gifts.
A few women are like this, so avoid them. However, most women are not.
The Truth
Not only do women want sex, women love multi-orgasmic sex. Women love sex with men who they are comfortable with and trust and men who respect them. Although women love sex, it does not mean they are promiscuous.
Female Sexual Fantasy
Go to your library and get out “My Secret Garden” by Nancy Friday. It is about the real female sexuality that “they” don’t want to know about. It has a collection of explicit sexual fantasies of several “normal” women. It proves how much women love sex.
More Shocking Truths
Women are more sexual than men. If you give women multiple orgasms, they will want sex all the time with you. She will want sex more than you.
Women love phone sex and dirty talk.
Find Out More
If you want to find out more about David Shade, get his FREE CD sent to you:
If you research the female orgasm literature, you’ll discover the claim, “70% of women can’t orgasm from penetration”. They “can’t” have vaginal orgasms and need clitoral stimulation from their partner to achieve orgasm.
This is a myth. It is true that 70% of women don’t orgasm from penetration alone. The sad fact is that 70% of men are bad in bed. That’s why 70% of women don’t have vaginal orgasms. These “boy” men never learned how to give women vaginal orgasms.
The statistics are interpreted as “female sexual incompetence” when in fact it is “male sexual incompetence”. This myth is simply an example of the centuries old tradition of suppressing female sexuality and the female orgasm by insecure men.
Freud’s Theory
Freud had a theory that clitoral orgasms are what immature women have, whereas vaginal orgasms are what mature women have. This theory has been rejected and even mocked.
Harry’s Theory
70% of men are “boys” because they give women very little orgasms, if any.
25% of men are “teenagers” because they give women clitoral orgasms.
5% of men are “real men” because they give women vaginal orgasms.
Are you a Real Man? If you’re not, simply follow all the physical and psychological techniques on this blog and you’ll become a real man in a matter of days, perhaps even hours.
Confessions of an Ex-Girlfriend
An ex-girlfriend told me that before she met me, she had very little vaginal orgasms. It was hit and miss and depended on “the mood”. To remedy this problem, her ex-boyfriend would go down on her and give her a clitoral orgasm. Then they had intercourse and he would cum. He masturbated in her vagina.
Evolution of Man
When she met me, she become vaginally multi-orgasmic. However, when I first started having sex, I was lame. I didn’t give women orgasms. And, I didn’t even know how incompetent I was. Then I learned some “physical” techniques and gave women clitoral orgasms. Finally, I learned the “psychological” techniques and gave women vaginal orgasms.
Your Life
Where are you in your personal evolution? Boy, teenager or Real Man? After you DO the things on this blog and you’re ready to go from Real Man to SEX GOD, instantly download SEX IQ.
Check out this awesome video about the orgasmic hot spots on the penis:
Parts Of The Penis
The penis has 3 main parts:
base (root)
shaft (body)
glans (head)
Average Length
Here’s the average length:
flaccid: 2-4 inches
erect: 4.6-6.25 inches
Hot Spots
Here are the hot spots:
foreskin (except for guys who are circumcised)
corona: the rim of the glans where the glans meets the shaft
frenulum: small bumps on the underside of the glans where it meets the shaft
You Can’t Change What You’ve Got?
Is it possible to enlarge your penis and make it multi-orgasmic? It definitely is. You don’t need a large, multi-orgasmic penis to make women cum hard, but it certainly adds to your sexual prowess and confidence.
Even though a larger penis doesn’t cause much of an increase in physical stimulation of the vagina, when a woman sees a large penis, she becomes extremely psychologically stimulated. Psychological stimulation is the key to the female orgasm.
Add 1 Inch In 2 Months?!
I’ve been experimenting with a new penis enlargement techniques with a mechanical device called a penis extender. I predict that I can add an extra inch in 2 months by using this secret technique (I’ve already added 2.5 inches using a combination of techniques, so I already know penis enlargement works).
I discovered/am discovering this technique myself, so it is not yet field tested. I’ll give you the results in 2 months, although I have already added 1/8 of an inch in a week. The aim is to add 1/8 of an inch every week for 8 weeks to give an increase of 1 inch in 2 months! It really is shockingly simple, but I don’t think many people would discover it on their own. None the less, I have published this untested “Add 1 inch to your penis in 2 months using a penis extender technique” in SEX IQ if you want to discover it right now.
The Catch
The “catch” is that you’ll have to buy an AndroPenis penis extender, which is 199 Euros (about 300 USD), to use the technique. There are proven penis enlargement techniques (which I used on myself to gain my first 2 inches, the other 0.5 inches from the penis extender) in SEX IQ that use only your hands, but they take months to get results.
If you buy an AndroPenis penis extender through my affiliate link, I will give you the 1 inch in 2 months technique for FREE. Just click the image.
Proper Exercises
If you go to a gym and lift weights, will your muscles get bigger? Yes, but only if you do the exercises properly. Likewise, if you buy a penis extender, will your penis get bigger? Yes, but only if you do the exercises properly.
Check out this awesome video by David Shade on the deep spot female orgasm:
Personally, I call the deep spot the “A spot” to be consistent with the “G spot” and the “C spot”. Choose whatever name that suits yourself.
What A Freakshow!
I first heard David Shade’s voice on a David DeAngelo interview and I thought he was a freakshow. Then I saw him on video and I thought he was an even bigger freakshow. Then I bought his ebooks on the female orgasm and then I realised how much of a freakshow I was!
How Do You Know If You’re Good In Bed?
I thought I was so good in bed. I didn’t even cum close. Neither did a lot of women I had slept with (I know that in retrospect now that I’ve actually made women cum hard and I know what a “proper” female orgasm looks, sounds and feels like). I wasn’t bad, but I wasn’t giving women screaming, whole-body, multiple orgasms either. I didn’t even think that was possible. In fact, the thought never occurred to me. David Shade taught me that you can make a woman sexually-addicted to you by giving her multiple orgasms.
Sexual Enlightenment
He introduced me to the A spot, female ejaculation, anal orgasms, nipple orgasms and “hypnogasms”. He also told me how to tell whether or not a woman had really had an orgasm: involuntary anal contractions. When you think she’s cumming, put a finger on her anus to confirm it.
I have bought just about every David Shade product because they are awesome. You can also get a taste of David Shade’s awesomeness when he sends you his free CD:
In this video, Dr Yvonne Fulbright describes the different kinds of female orgasm.
Ideal Woman
She’s very hot isn’t she? Dr Yvonne has many traits of the ideal woman, including:
hot
nice
smart
horny
She describes 3 kinds of female orgasm:
Clitoral
Vaginal
Blended
She’s Holding Back
However, she really is holding back. She is fully aware of other female orgasms like the anal orgasm, squirting orgasm, whole-body orgasm and nipple orgasm. I think the main reason she is holding back is because she doesn’t want to offend the academic community or make people feel inadequate.
The True Reason
Sometimes I think she should stop being so nice and trying to please everyone. For example, she says that most women don’t reach orgasm through intercourse because most positions don’t allow for direct clitoral stimulation and only some women can have vaginal orgasms. This is not the true reason. The true reason is that only 5% of men are good in bed. In other words, there’s nothing wrong with the woman, it’s the man.
Female Infidelity
She also says not to worry if you don’t give a woman an orgasm. She’s just being nice. If you fail to give a woman an orgasm too many times, she will become bitchy and more and more likely to cheat or leave you. The main reason why husbands divorce wives is because of female infidelity. The main reason for female infidelity is because husbands aren’t giving their wives orgasms.
Evolution
Humans are a species where the male must learn to give the female an orgasm. It is not an instinct. The more orgasms he gives her, the more she will retain his sperm (the female orgasm sucks sperm into the uterus) and the more offspring he will have. The female orgasm has evolved so women can select the best men to share their genes with. Some women will even have a husband to buy her shit and a lover to give her orgasms and fertilise her eggs. That’s why there’s a 10-15% non-paternity rate worldwide!
Fucking Academics
For centuries, academics were convinced the female orgasm didn’t exist, but then again they were also convinced that the earth was flat and at the centre of the universe.
Today, they acknowledge that the female orgasm exists, but they are reluctant to acknowledge “hardcore” orgasms like anal orgasms, squirting orgasms and “hypnogasms”. You will master hypnogasms when you instantly download SEX IQ.
As for me, I have also come from the academic community, but I don’t give a fuck about offending it. Nor do I hold back with the reality that people don’t want to acknowledge.
However, everything I give to you is supported with concrete evidence, although some academics wouldn’t find the evidence acceptable because then they would have to acknowledge that they are lame in bed.
So, if you want a scientific, practical, effective, honest education on the female orgasm, then instantly download SEX IQ.
Watch this highly valuable video by Jaiya about the different kinds of female orgasm.
Here are the different kinds of female orgasm:
C spot
The C spot is the clitoris and is at the top of the vagina. A woman can have a C spot orgasm at the head of her clitoris or deep in the body of her clitoris. C spot orgasms are very similar to penis orgasms because the penis and clitoris are made from similar tissues and both connect to the brain via the pudendal nerves. C spot (& penis) orgasms release a hormone called prolactin which causes the “I’ve had enough of sex” sensation. However, women can still have multiple C spot orgasms.
G spot
The G spot is the Grafenberg spot and is named after the doctor who discovered it. The G spot is 1-2 inches (half of your middle finger) on the front wall of the vagina. It feels hard and ribbed like the roof of your mouth when she is turned on. The G spot responds to rapid pumping. A woman can have a G spot orgasm with ejaculation or a G spot orgasm without ejaculation. A woman can also ejaculate without an orgasm. Female ejaculate is basically semen without the sperm and cums out of the urethra (pee hole) via the Skene glands.
A spot
The A spot is the anterior fornix and is 3-4 inches (the length of your middle finger) on the front wall of the vagina, just before the cervix.
X spot
The X spot is the cervix. The cervix is the entrance to the uterus and feels like the tip of your nose. If a woman wears a diaphragm, the X spot is what she is covering up so sperm don’t enter her uterus to get her pregnant.
Uterus
The uterus is also known as the womb and is where babies go. Uterine orgasms are extremely deep and occur when a woman’s emotional connection is so deep with you that she wants to have your babies.
U spot
The U spot is the urethra (pee hole). The U spot is between the C spot and the vaginal opening.
Combined
Woman can have a C spot orgasm with a G spot orgasm or a C spot orgasm with ejaculation or some other combination.
Anus
Women can G spot orgasm via anal stimulation because there’s a very thin wall between the anus and the vagina. Women can also have anal orgasms without any G spot stimulation.
Erogenous Zones
Women can also have orgasms in weird places like the:
inner elbow
wrist
end of the little finger
As you give a woman more and more orgasms, her entire body will start to respond orgasmically to you.
Kriya (Whole-Body)
Kriya is awakened kundalini (sexual energy). The woman will be shaking when she cums as orgasmic waves circulate around her body. She will also have REM (rapid eye movement) and will enter an altered state of consciousness.
Emotions
Women can have “cry-gasms” and “laugh-gasms”. They laugh or cry uncontrollably while they have an orgasm. This happens when you’ve given a woman so many intense orgasms that she enters an altered state of consciousness.
Voice Only
You can make a woman orgasm with your voice only. Orgasm is in the brain and that’s why hypnotists can give women orgasms on stage without any physical stimulation.
What’s one of the easiest ways to be the best lover a woman has ever had? Use the “3 B4 Me Female Orgasm Technique”: Give her at least 3 orgasms before intercourse. That is before your cock even goes near her pussy OR mouth.
The bottom line is that most guys (95%!) are lame and/or selfish in bed. They don’t give women 1 orgasm during the entire sexual encounter. The women that they sleep with become so sexually frustrated that they become bitchy and then they cheat or contemplate cheating.
However, some of the women value the relationship so much that they will fake orgasm after orgasm to boost the man’s ego. Then after 10 years of bad sex, they cheat and/or leave.
When you continuously practise “3 B4 Me” a woman will fantasise about you for the rest of her life. She will initiate sex with you. If you don’t, you will be forgotten just like every other lame lover she has ever had.
She will tell her friends about your multi-orgasmic sex skills and you’ll find yourself in awkward situations where her friends will start hitting on you. What if she wanted to share you with one of her hot friends?
Give her 3 orgasms during foreplay with your fingers and/or mouth. I prefer to give women C spot (clitoral) orgasms first because they prime their G spots for vaginal orgasms during intercourse.
Foreplay orgasms also make the inner third of women vagina begin to balloon. She will perceive this as an empty sensation and she’ll be begging you to fill it with your cock.
Here are my 2 favourite C spot orgasm techniques:
Clit Blowjob
Clit Milking
They’re basically the same technique, except the Clit Blowjob makes her cum with your mouth and the Clit Milking makes her cum with your fingers.
Here are the videos showing my techniques:
Clit Blowjob
Clit Milking
After you’ve watched the videos, watch this video by my friend Jason Julius:
Your Action Plan
During foreplay tonight, give your woman a C spot orgasm with Clit Milking.
Let her clit rest for 5 minutes and massage her shoulders.
Then give her a C spot orgasm with the Clit Blowjob.
Let her clit rest for another 5 minutes and massage her lower back.
Give her another C spot orgasm with the Clit Blowjob.
Tell her to give you a foreplay blowjob for 5 minutes. Do not cum.
Now have sex. Do “intimate lovemaking” and/or “dominant fucking”.
Notice how she cums hard during intercourse. When she’s cumming, tell her to look you in the eyes because this will take her orgasm to the next level.
When you cum, look her in the eyes because this will take your orgasm to the next level.
After you both cum, have a snuggle and doze off to sleep.
Over the next couple of weeks and months, notice how much she falls in love with you.
Warning: Doing “3 B4 Me” constantly will make a woman fall madly in love with you, so use ethically.
“Reverse Missionary” is the best position for the female orgasm because the woman can control and maximise the stimulation of her clit and G spot. Reverse missionary is also excellent for intimacy and making love. Here’s what it looks like:
“Doggy Style” is the best position for the male orgasm because the man can control and maximise the stimulation of his penis. It also allows deep continuous penetration.
If you have not yet learned to delay your orgasm, it is best to avoid this position. Alternatively if you have a problem cumming, use this position more often.
If you have a longer penis, be careful about hitting her cervix because women who haven’t given birth often find it painful. If you have a shorter penis, you can use this position to get deeper penetration.
Doggy style is also excellent for dominant fucking. Here’s what it looks like:
Remember that you must do “intimate love making” AND “dominant fucking” AND “spiritual energy sex” to fully satisfy a woman. Find out how when you instantly download SEX IQ for the ultimate female orgasm.
Watch this video by Jaiya (a tantric woman) because she will explain how you can use tantra (ancient sex techniques from India) to stop premature ejaculation.
What happens if you prematurely ejaculate or cum before the woman?
If you’re in a relationship with her, she’ll become so sexually frustrated that she’ll start acting like a bitch. She won’t take you seriously and will start disrespecting you, especially in front of your friends. I have a couple of friends and acquaintances in this situation and it so painful to watch as their girlfriends take big smelly dumps on them.
If you just have a one-night stand with her, and you prematurely ejaculate or cum before her, guess what will happen? She WON’T be back for seconds, so you can forget about a fling or a “friends with benefits” thing with her. She will even tell all her friends how lame in bed you are. This means that her friends and acquaintances will find out about you and avoid having sex with you as well. They will even make fun of you behind your back.
But what if you DON’T prematurely ejaculate or cum before her? Does that make you a Sex God? Absolutely not.
I used to think that because I could last 20+ minutes in bed that I was a Sex God. When I first started having sex, I could last for ages. Most times I didn’t even cum (mainly because I had drunken 2 dozen beers). However, most times the woman didn’t cum either.
NOT prematurely ejaculating just means that you’re NOT BAD in bed. It does not mean that you’re good.
You have to add extra things on to be a Sex God. You have to give her multiple vaginal orgasms. One of the best vaginal orgasms is the A spot orgasm:
The A spot orgasm is so physically and emotionally satisfying to a woman that she will think you are a Sex God. She will become so sexually-addicted to you that she will ask you for sex. What’s more, just about every woman has never experienced an A spot orgasm. So, why don’t you pop her A spot orgasm cherry and become her best lover ever?
So in conclusion, make yourself cum slower and make her cum faster because this will make you a SEX GOD.
After you watch the videos and get the results for yourself, instantly download SEX IQ for the ultimate female orgasm.
Don’t focus on “getting” a blowjob. Instead focus on giving a woman pleasure from giving you a blowjob. Make her love giving you blowjobs. Not only is she giving you a favour, she is also giving herself a favour.
Hygiene
Don’t turn a woman off in the first place. Women do not like “man rug”. Shave your shaft (of your penis), balls, perineum (the area between your anus and balls) and inner thighs. I use a “Schick Quattro” razor because it’s extremely safe and efficient.
Also make sure you are either clean shaven or your beard is soft because stubble will hurt her pussy.
Trim your bush (the rest of your pubic hair) with a cheap pair of hair clippers. Not only does shaving and trimming make your cock look cleaner, it also makes it look bigger and more enticing.
Shower daily, especially after exercise and before your anticipated blowjob, so you don’t have any foul smells and tastes. Again, don’t turn a woman off in the first place.
Reciprocity
Give her orgasms from oral. A reciprocator (an essential trait in a relationship) will return the favour. Read this post for videos on how to give her oral:
Do 69ers. Give her oral while she gives you oral. It’s best if the guy is on the bottom and he props his head up with a pillow. Lois Griffin is hot!
The Couch Massage
While you’re sitting on the couch watching TV, get her to lie on your lap. Slowly start massaging her head, neck and shoulders. As she relaxes and enjoys your “non-sexual massage”, transition into “sexual massage”. Start massaging her breasts and clit. Do “1 o’clock stroking”:
As you’re stroking her clit and she’s getting wetter and closer to orgasm, pull your cock out and put it in her mouth. Remember she is lying on your lap so her mouth is already by your cock. She is also in the “alpha state”: a highly relaxed brain state where the mind is up to 200x more suggestible and much more “compliant”. Put your cock in her mouth when she’s getting close to cumming because she will associate her orgasm with giving you blowjobs ie just like she naturally loves orgasms, she will also love giving you blowjobs!
Pavlovian Conditioning
Dr Ivan Pavlov was an Russian doctor who won a Nobel Prize in the early 1900s. One of his famous discoveries was “Pavlovian conditioning”.
He found that when his dogs smelled meat powder, their mouths watered. That’s normal and to be expected.
Then he started ringing a bell as his dogs smelled the meat powder. Again their mouths watered. Nothing profound there.
Then he did what he is famous for: He rang the bell without any meat powder around and the dogs mouths still watered. The dogs’ brains associated “bell ringing” with “watery mouth”. The dogs’ brains connected a “neutral stimulus” (bell ringing) with a “positive stimulus” (meat powder). The neutral stimulus became a positive stimulus.
This “Pavlovian conditioning” or “associative learning” is how all animal species learn, including humans. In our minds/brains, “neutral stimuli” can become associated with pain or pleasure and then the neutral stimulus becomes a positive or negative one.
So what? What’s salivating dogs got to do with getting more blowjobs?
Simple. You can turn a blowjob into a “positive stimulus” in a woman’s brain/mind.
Give her orgasms from oral or with your fingers. She doesn’t touch your cock. You’re giving her a positive stimulus by itself.
Next put your cock in her mouth while she is cumming. You’re associating a neutral stimulus with a positive stimulus. Do this several times to make the association in her brain/mind strong.
During another session, put your cock in her mouth without stimulating her clit whatsoever. Her brain will now expect to get an orgasm from giving you a blowjob. The blowjob itself may not give her a spontaneous orgasm, but it will automatically turn her body on and she will love giving you blowjobs.
As you get closer to cumming in her mouth, start rubbing her clit to orgasm because this will also associate your cumming in her mouth with her orgasm.
Negative Suggestion
Use “negative suggestion” to make her love giving you blowjobs further. Read this post for details:
Lesbians/bisexual women are better at “tongue fu”: they are better at eating pussy than men. They start slow and teasingly and as the women gets closer and closer to orgasm they increase the speed and pressure.
Watch these cunnilingus videos and then prove their effectiveness to your woman and yourself tonight. Remember to start of really slow and increase the speed and pressure of your tongue as she gets closer to cumming.
The Kivin Method
Clit Blowjob
Clit Circles
Whole Body Stimulation
Lesbians/bisexual women kiss and massage a woman’s entire body. They don’t restrict themselves to her breasts, vagina and buttocks. They also give a lot of attention to her arms, neck, shoulders, back, stomach and legs. Also kiss and massage her palms, soles and head.
After Sex
After sex they cuddle her and tell her how much they care about her. Most guys fall asleep or get up and make a sandwich.
Your Mission
Here’s what you do tonight:
Kiss and massage your woman’s entire body for 20 minutes.
Give her an orgasm either with the Kivin method, clit blowjob or clit circles. You can even do a combination of all 3 techniques.
After you make her cum, cuddle her and tell her how much you care about her.
After you’ve done that, click here for the ultimate female orgasm.
First of all, you must have the mindset that you are not getting a woman to do something. Instead, you are giving her the gift of extraordinary pleasure and empowering her as a woman.
Now that you have that essential mindset, do you want to know a clever psychological trick to “convert” a woman? It’s called “negative suggestion”: people want the forbidden. Tell a person they can’t have something and then they will want it.
What the fuck!? That’s just reverse psychology. That would never work in the bedroom!
But what if it did?
Watch this video by the Magician-Hypnotist-Mentalist Derren Brown to see the power of negative suggestion:
Notice how Derren makes a guy go to sleep just by looking through a hole.
Watch the video so you become open to the possibilities of how women will satisfy all of your desires in the bedroom.
Your negative suggestions could be:
“It would be really hot if we had sex, but we can’t do that.”
“It would be really hot if you put me in your mouth, but we can’t do that.”
“It would be really hot if you swallowed, but we can’t do that.”
“It would be really hot if you had an anal orgasm, but we can’t do that.”
“It would be really hot if we had another person with us making you cum, but we can’t do that.”
After you make the negative suggestion, don’t pursue the issue any further. Make the suggestion repeatedly at different times in the future over a period of days and weeks and then see what happens.
Initial Conditions
You need initial conditions to make negative suggestion work efficiently in the bed room:
Don’t Pressure Her
Don’t pressure or nag her to do the thing you want her to do. Don’t do what most relationship “experts” tell you to do: sit down, “communicate”, tell her how you feel and tell her what you want her to do.
This sounds like the rational thing do to, but often this just aggravates the situation, so don’t do it. You must communicate with her the right way. You must communicate with her sexual-subconscious mind in the bedroom.
As a general rule, Do NOT discuss your sexual desires (that she is not yet on board with) outside of the bedroom.
The Alpha State
Put her in the “alpha state”: the state of relaxed alertness. This is a brain state that is highly relaxed and free of stress. It is also a state where the mind is highly suggestible (up to 200x more suggestible) and you can communicate directly with her sexual-subconscious mind.
One of the best ways to achieve alpha state is through massage. As you massage her, tell her to:
Close her eyes.
Take deep, slow breaths.
Relax her body and mind.
Try to dose off to sleep.
Say, “As I rub your X (eg shoulders), you will completely relax.”
Say this for all the parts of her body you massage.
Massage her for 10-20 minutes and talk with a soothing voice as you do it.
Transition into “sexual massage”. Stroke her breasts, nipples and clit.
When she is highly relaxed, make your negative suggestion, especially when she is cumming. You are planting a seed. All you have to do is let it grow.
Remember your mindset of gift-giving.
Oxytocin
Oxytocin is the orgasm hormone. It is also the “sexual reprogramming hormone”, the “fetish hormone” and the “obsessive-compulsive disorder hormone”. This means if you release large amounts of oxytocin in a woman through vaginal orgasms over a period of days and weeks, you can transform a low sex drive woman into a sex addict. She will develop a fetish and “OCD” for you. More importantly, oxytocin can erase her old sexual programming like:
She has a low sex drive.
She doesn’t like blowjobs.
She doesn’t swallow cum.
She doesn’t do anal sex.
She doesn’t have threesomes.
So, once you flood her body with oxytocin via vaginal orgasms (A & G spots), how do you erase her old sexual programming and replace it with a new, exciting, mutually beneficial one? With negative suggestion.
Success Rate?
Does negative suggestion work every single time on every single woman? No. Negative suggestion has a high success rate when it is combined with the alpha state and oxytocin. The 4 Sex Personalites make it even more successful:
Are there other psychological techniques that when combined with negative suggestion make your success a virtual certainty? Yes.
Where do you find these other psychological techniques? In SEX IQ.
Here’s what you do next: Use negative suggestion in the bedroom this week. First set up your initial conditions: alpha state and oxytocin. Then make your negative suggestion.
When you have proven negative suggestion to yourself, instantly download SEX IQ for more psychological techniques.
If your penis is less than 5 inches, it is small. Does that mean you can’t make women cum hard? Absolutely not.
Here’s a weird fact: most guys with big cocks are not that good in bed. They’re so self-absorbed by their package that they never psychologically stimulate the woman. I once saw Mandigo (a male porn star with a huge cock) fuck Cytherea. Cytherea is a multi-orgasmic squirter who cums very quickly. You know she is cumming hard because her ejaculate is squirting everywhere and her body looks like it’s having an epileptic fit. However, monstercock Mandigo couldn’t satisfy her. When she fucks men with small penises, they have no problem giving her multiple orgasms.
Here’s how you make women cum hard, even if you have a small penis:
Self Belief
Believe that you are a masterful lover and you deserve to make women cum hard. Believe that you are enough to give your woman multiple orgasms. Give yourself permission to be her best lover ever.
If you have problems with self-belief, use EFT:
A possible phrase could be: “Even though I think my penis isn’t long enough to make women cum hard, I deeply and completely accept myself.”
Be a Sexual Beast
The Sexual Beast is one of the 4 sex personalities that women from every culture are naturally aroused by. The Sexual Beast has a lot of dominance and women’s brains are naturally “hard-wired” by evolution to be attracted to dominant Alpha males.
How do you be a Sexual Beast?
First, take the lead. Believe and expectthat your woman will follow your lead and she will. Don’t ask her if she wants to change sex positions, just do it. Don’t use a whiny, approval-seeking voice, use a deep, authoritative voice. It may seem weird at first, but you will get used to it. You MUST get used to it.
Second, do “manhandling”. Lightly bite her neck, lightly pull her hair and lightly spank her arse. Also smell her hair and make sure she knows you’re doing it. This is what animals do and this behaviour can illicit her inner animal instincts. There’s a “weird” instinct in many animal species: the female will only mate with the male if he “manhandles” her. Humans also have this instinct.
Third, talk dirty to her. Say things like:
“Take your clothes off.”
“Open your legs.”
“Put my cock in your pussy.”
“Your pussy feels so good.”
“Thrust your pussy onto my cock.”
“You love my cock, don’t you.”
“Play with your clit.”
“You love to cum, don’t you.”
“Cum hard for me.”
“Cum harder.”
Women respond orgasmically to dirty talk whether or not you like or believe it, so do it.
For more information on the Sexual Beast, read this post:
Third, do sex positions that stimulate her G spot. The G spot is only 1-2 inches on the front wall of the vagina and penises that are 3.5-5 inches are more than enough to stimulate it. Here are the positions:
So do these things tonight and prove it to yourself. Then instantly download SEX IQ for advanced female orgasm techniques.
What’s the biggest problem most guys have in bed? They cum before the woman. Or perhaps more accurately, the guy cums fast and the woman doesn’t cum at all.
One of my ex-girlfriends once told me that her ex-boyfriend would go down on her, make her cum and then they would have intercourse and he would cum. He masturbated in her vagina. That is fucking lame. Don’t be that guy.
When she met me, she became vaginally-multi-orgasmic. We had simultaneous orgasms all the time, except when we were drunk or hungover. Alcohol messes with “orgasm chemistry” in the brain.
So what’s the secret to lasting 30-45 minutes in bed? RELAXATION.
As you would have discovered from your female orgasm course, relaxation (the woman’s) is also the secret to the female orgasm.
As a guy gets closer and closer to orgasm, his body gets tense: his breathing becomes quicker and shallower and his muscles tense up. What’s the solution? Do the reverse ie relaxation.
Breathing: Take long, deep breaths (the opposite of quick, shallow breaths). This also decreases your heart rate, which is the opposite of the high heart rate during orgasm.
Muscles: Keep your muscles relaxed, especially your buttocks, thighs, lower back and abs. How do you relax muscles? Don’t tense them and don’t thrust.
Mind: Diverge your eyes. Pretend there’s an orange on the top-back of your head. Try and look at it and your eyes will diverge. Alternatively you can look at one corner of the room with one eye and another corner with the other eye. This is a relaxation technique from “Photoreading” (reading 25,000 words per minute) by Paul Scheele. When your eyes are this way, your brain enters the “alpha state”: the state of relaxed alertness.
Sex Positions: Do sex positions where she is doing the thrusting. The ideal one is cowgirl (woman on top). Cowgirl is doubly important because not only does it delay your orgasm, it accelerates hers. When you do “doggy” (rear-entry) or “missionary” (man on top), don’t thrust into her, tell her to thrust into you.
2 other good positions where your thrusting is minimal are “Yab Yum” (aka “Lotus”) and “Lap Dance”. Check out this post for animations:
When she’s doing the thrusting, do you realise that she’s tensing her buttocks, thighs, lower back and abs? This means she’ll cum faster! When she’s in the Cowgirl position, also squeeze her buttocks, rub her thighs, massage her breasts, suck her nipples and rub her perineum (the area between her anus and vagina – this will contract her orgasm muscles) and stroke her internal clitoris.
You can stay in the “pre-orgasmic zone” for 30-45 minutes and when she cums, you tense your buttocks, thrust your hips, trigger your ejaculation reflex and cum with her: the coveted simultaneous orgasm!
When she’s about to cum, you’ll hear her breathing: she’ll have 4-7 rapid inhales, hold it, and release it while her body trembles orgasmically. That’s when you starting tensing and thrusting so you cum with her.
This sounds so simple that is seems like it couldn’t possibly work. But guess what? You can try it right now and prove it to yourself.
After you prove it to yourself, instantly download SEX IQ and you’ll also discover how to be a multi-orgasmic man and make your woman a multi-orgasmic woman.
Before you label me as a woman-hater with a small penis, I’d like you to be aware that I did not create these 6 truths.
They were written by Riki and endorsed by Marni, the founder (and a sexy, articulate, intelligent, beautiful woman) of the Wing Girl Method.
Wing Girls is a service for men where hot women go out “in the field” with men and help them pick up women. The Wing Girls give the men real-time feedback about what they’re doing wrong and what they should be doing instead.
Here are the top 6 signs a woman is a cock tease (as written by Riki, a Wing Girl):
1. She doesn’t talk about her personal statures- she’s being vague for a
reason.
2. She never makes direct comments on how cute/ attractive you are -she’s not sincerely attracted, she’s entertaining herself.
3. She keeps conversation constricted to things going on in the moment not interested in sharing any moments beyond this point.
4. She lets a gal pal pull her away- give it up, this was a mere flirtatious
encounter.
5. She takes your number instead of giving you hers – She’s doesn’t want you calling her, and has no intentions on calling you.
6. She is not open to being touched- She pulls away when you make attempts at physical contact.
This can be a hard thing to swallow about us ladies, so on a brighter note I wanted to share that I have indeed experienced a few rare occasions where I have flirted with a guy with no intentions of being with him and was pleasantly surprised with interest… so keep hope alive fellas! There are always special odds to every scenario. BUT for the most typical occasions remember these signs the next time a woman flirts with you, to weed out the fake flirts… it will save your time for the legitimate ones.
Female orgasm techniques can be divided into 2 broad categories: physical and psychological.
The psychological techniques are by far the most powerful. In fact, the physical techniques won’t work efficiently if you don’t have some basic psychology.
2 important psychological factors are dominance and emotion. Dominance is about leadership and not being a wussy. I divide emotion into 2 parts: low energy and high energy emotions. Low energy emotions include comfort, safety, security, trust, respect and relaxation. High energy emotions include romance, attraction, passion, laughter, anticipation, unpredictability and lust. Love has low and high energy components.
Most guys only do low energy emotion. They’re nice and caring. They have little dominance and little high energy emotions. They also have very few women who are sexually-addicted to them.They are constantly “begging” women for sex.
To be a masterful lover, you must have dominance and high energy emotion.
So, how do you do dominance and emotion? Easy: dirty talk and emotional talk.
Here’s your action plan when you have sex tonight:
Be dominant by saying “I love being inside of you.”
Be emotional by saying “I really care about you.”
Say the words calmly and sincerely. Don’t sound like you’re reading a script. Most importantly, believe what you’re saying because when you believe it, she will believe it and her body will respond orgasmically to you.
Only say it if you mean and then notice how her body and vagina becomes more sensitive to you, her breathing becomes quicker and shallower and her entire body spasms when she cums hard.
For more things to do to increase your dominance and emotion, read this post:
What’s the ideal penis girth? In my opinion, it’s 6″ because:
It’s visually arousing to women without freaking them out (once I enlarged my girth to 6.5″ with a penis pump and it looked like a freakshow).
Women can still give you decent blowjob without straining their jaws.
It stretches a woman’s vagina so it feels full. This is extremely pleasureable to women.
It makes you feel sexually powerful and that’s what really turns women on.
Take a tailor’s tape measure and wrap it around the thickest part of your penis. That’s your girth.
Are you aware that studies have found that most women have a “big cock fantasy”. They want to be fucked by men with big cocks at least once in their lives. They also want to make gentle, tender love, but they want to be sexually dominated sometimes as well and a large penis is ideal for achieving this.
Does height matter? Does personality matter? Does muscularity matter? Does humour matter? Does intelligence matter? Does education matter? Does social standing matter? Does your job matter? Does your bank account matter? Do multi-orgasmic sex skills matter? Yes, yes, yes, yes, yes, yes, yes, yes, yes & yes.
Will the lack of any one of these things stop an amazing woman wanting a healthy, loving, multi-orgasmic relationship with you? No, except for personality and multi-orgasmic sex skills.
Where do you fit in the “penis continuum”?
<3″: micro-penis
3-5″: small
5-7″:average
7-9″:large
>9″:huge
What’s the ideal penis length? I could say something “original” like “it depends, everyone’s different, just be yourself”, but I’m not lame. I’ll put my arse on the line and make a decision. I’m not one of those so-called experts who teases you with a headline, refuses to take a position and then tells you some story about the history of a particular issue.
In my opinion, the ideal penis length is 8″ and it’s not because my penis is also 8″. I think penis size is analogous to breast size: big breasts look super sexy (eg D cups), but anything bigger starts looking weird (or is fake). Women find a large penis extremely visually arousing and this makes them extremely wet and horny.
Here’s the weird thing: my penis stopped growing when I was 18 and then I started enlarging it when I was in my mid 20s.
According to Dr Baker and Dr Bellis, women are more likely to orgasm with their lover during or after sexual intercourse.
