How To Get Women To Do New Things In Bed

I often get questions like:

• How do I get my woman to have sex?
• How do I get my woman to give me blow jobs?
• How do I get my woman to swallow my cum?
• How do I get my woman to do anal?
• How do I get my woman to have threesomes?

First of all, you must have the mindset that you are not getting a woman to do something. Instead, you are giving her the gift of extraordinary pleasure and empowering her as a woman.

Now that you have that essential mindset, do you want to know a clever psychological trick to “convert” a woman? It’s called “negative suggestion”: people want the forbidden. Tell a person they can’t have something and then they will want it.

What the fuck!? That’s just reverse psychology. That would never work in the bedroom!

But what if it did?

Watch this video by the Magician-Hypnotist-Mentalist Derren Brown to see the power of negative suggestion:

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9fIuMBDLOAQ

Notice how Derren makes a guy go to sleep just by looking through a hole.

Watch the video so you become open to the possibilities of how women will satisfy all of your desires in the bedroom.

Your negative suggestions could be:

• “It would be really hot if we had sex, but we can’t do that.”
• “It would be really hot if you put me in your mouth, but we can’t do that.”
• “It would be really hot if you swallowed, but we can’t do that.”
• “It would be really hot if you had an anal orgasm, but we can’t do that.”
• “It would be really hot if we had another person with us making you cum, but we can’t do that.”

After you make the negative suggestion, don’t pursue the issue any further. Make the suggestion repeatedly at different times in the future over a period of days and weeks and then see what happens.

Initial Conditions

You need initial conditions to make negative suggestion work efficiently in the bed room:

Don’t Pressure Her

Don’t pressure or nag her to do the thing you want her to do. Don’t do what most relationship “experts” tell you to do: sit down, “communicate”, tell her how you feel and tell her what you want her to do.

This sounds like the rational thing do to, but often this just aggravates the situation, so don’t do it. You must communicate with her the right way. You must communicate with her sexual-subconscious mind in the bedroom.

As a general rule, Do NOT discuss your sexual desires (that she is not yet on board with) outside of the bedroom.

The Alpha State

Put her in the “alpha state”: the state of relaxed alertness. This is a brain state that is highly relaxed and free of stress. It is also a state where the mind is highly suggestible (up to 200x more suggestible) and you can communicate directly with her sexual-subconscious mind.

One of the best ways to achieve alpha state is through massage. As you massage her, tell her to:

• Close her eyes.
• Take deep, slow breaths.
• Relax her body and mind.
• Try to dose off to sleep.
• Say, “As I rub your X (eg shoulders), you will completely relax.”
• Say this for all the parts of her body you massage.
• Massage her for 10-20 minutes and talk with a soothing voice as you do it.
• Transition into “sexual massage”. Stroke her breasts, nipples and clit.
• When she is highly relaxed, make your negative suggestion, especially when she is cumming. You are planting a seed. All you have to do is let it grow.
• Remember your mindset of gift-giving.

Oxytocin

Oxytocin is the orgasm hormone. It is also the “sexual reprogramming hormone”, the “fetish hormone” and the “obsessive-compulsive disorder hormone”. This means if you release large amounts of oxytocin in a woman through vaginal orgasms over a period of days and weeks, you can transform a low sex drive woman into a sex addict. She will develop a fetish and “OCD” for you. More importantly, oxytocin can erase her old sexual programming like:

• She has a low sex drive.
• She doesn’t like blowjobs.
• She doesn’t swallow cum.
• She doesn’t do anal sex.
• She doesn’t have threesomes.

So, once you flood her body with oxytocin via vaginal orgasms (A & G spots), how do you erase her old sexual programming and replace it with a new, exciting, mutually beneficial one? With negative suggestion.

Success Rate?

Does negative suggestion work every single time on every single woman? No. Negative suggestion has a high success rate when it is combined with the alpha state and oxytocin. The 4 Sex Personalites make it even more successful:

http://1stop4femaleorgasms.com/blog/133/the-4-sex-personalities/

Are there other psychological techniques that when combined with negative suggestion make your success a virtual certainty? Yes.

Where do you find these other psychological techniques? In SEX IQ.

Here’s what you do next: Use negative suggestion in the bedroom this week. First set up your initial conditions: alpha state and oxytocin. Then make your negative suggestion.

When you have proven negative suggestion to yourself, instantly download SEX IQ for more psychological techniques.

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