Orgasmic Hot Spots For The Female Orgasm

Question from “sexual-noob”:

She no longer has the internal orgasm. I need a refresher course.

Hello,

I’ve been with the same girl for about 6 years now. When we first got together she would orgasm easily, now… not always so much. I’m sure this has a lot to do with the fact I’ve emptied out my bag of tricks and the variety isn’t… well, such a variety.

A few nights ago she expressed to me that she hasn’t had an internal orgasm in a very long time. Like any guy, I was completely oblivious to this. After giving it some thought, I realized that it is usually clitoral stimulation.

I want to know what I can do to really please her the way that I once could. I know that I need to get her as worked up as possible before penetration, don’t start out fast and pounding away, try different motions. Are there any positions that anyone can suggest to really hit the spot?

I also think that I may need a refresher on where these spots are. When you go years thinking that you know what you are doing there seems to be no need to study. I’m sure that this aids in the lack of orgasms as well.

I love this girl and I want to keep her and I want to please her.

My answer:

Here’s a diagram of the orgasmic hot spots for the female orgasm:

Focus on “training” these spots first with your fingers and then use your penis. Sex positions are largely a waste of time if you haven’t trained the spots first.

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